Bhai Sahab, one day marriage ka ek reason ye bhi hai ki aajkal today marriage bhi short cut tareeke se hi hoti hai.. bahut kam pandit log bache hai jo ki poori shadi vidhi vidhan se karate hai, jyadatar pandit log to jante tak nahi hai.. unhe sirf kuch slok yaad hai..jo koe bhi 2-4 shadiya attend karke sheekh sakta hai.. bas unhi ko repeat karke bolte rahte hai or poori shadi nipta dete hai.. agar today marriage bhi hoti hai to rat mai 1-2 baje tak pandit ji barat nipta kar sone chale jate hai.. hal hi mai mere cousin ki shadi hue thi.. ham log 11 baje lagan mai baite or 1:40 mai poori barat ho gayi..samajh mai nahi ata ki jis poori vidhi mai pahle 5 to 6 hours lagte the wahi aab 2 to 3 hrs mai kaise complete ho jata hai( With out the help of computer).. muje dar hai ki ane wale 8-10 sal bad shadiya bhi computer ki help se hongi ek cd chala ke mantra bole jayenge etc
Jaise ki ek topic mai mention tha ki rat ki shadi mai Dhurv tare ko dikhaya jata hai... per aajkal jayda ter shadiya banquet halls mai hoti hai, jaha se koe dhurv tara najar nahi ata sirf, pandit log uttar disha mai dekhne ke liye bol dete hai.. aab andar ki shadi or bhahar ki shadi wala concept rah hi nahi gaya...
Shadi mai agar aap logu ko yaad ho to dulha pathar rakhta hai or dulhan pathar mai lat mar kar unhe girati hai fir dulhe ko wo wapas se sahi karne hote hai... (ye fere ke time pe hota hai).. aab hamare yaha pe pandit logu ne naya system nikala hai.. pathar ki jahag 1rupaye ka coin rakhwate hai..kyuki ek to pathar doodne padte hai fir unhe sahi se lagane mai dulhe ko time lagta hai, isliye coin use karo, bhale hi isase poori riti riwaj change ho jaye or use karne ka main purpose hi khatam ho jay..per kise farak padta hai.
Ha One day marriage ka fayda ye hai ki ladki walu ki tension kam ho jati hai. Barat ko sambhalya asan ho jata hai, baratiyu ke sone ka bandobast nahi karna padta, light ki tension nahi rahti, sarab pee kar jagre hone ka dar bhi kam ho jata hai. etc etc...